23 Jul An Insider’s Guide to Sleeping with Another Woman for the First Time
What "counts" as sex with another woman? This is the most common question I get when people find out I sleep with other people with vaginas. A bit invasive and rude, sure-but I get it. We live in a society that generalizes sex as a "P-in-V" situation.
Not only is it 100-percent possible to have satisfying sex with another woman or vulva owner, but there's also way more than one way to have sex with another woman. "It's up to the individuals who are participating in the sexual act to determine whether it's sex or not. For some, it might be oral sex, for others it might be mutual masturbation," explains clinical sexologist Megan Stubbs, Ed.D. "There aren't any boxes that need to be checked for something to be sex. But there are so many boxes to choose from!"
And let it be known that, while "lesbian sex" clearly connotates sex between two women or people with vaginas, you don't have to identify as a lesbian to enjoy female-on-female sex.