17 Aug This means that more time ? more desire, connection, or even love for that matter
Stop guaranteeing security in your commitment , if they want to keep you around make them convince you of that every day. It's this premise that you might not call your partner tomorrow for a second date that makes them crave you.
the websiteStop spending all the time together. In fact take whole days apart either in terms of attention, time, and/or space. Learn to miss each other in order to remember that love is not always a given, and as such desire should return because as renown psychotherapist Esther Perel points out – love is to have, desire is to want. You can't want what you know for sure that you have.
You need to find a woman who remains sexual for a long time even without marriage and if they change, then weigh up your odds on staying and leaving, but sadly you will never marry someone and have them stay that way forever
Start acting and behaving as you were before you moved in, married, or as I say reached the ‘pinnacle of love'. Take this example. You go on a date, they show no interest whatsoever in terms of desire – for whatever reason – would you go on to show them love. No. Why is it that you would go on to do this now? Because you are putting your partner on a pedestal. Your partner finishes work, you begin to kiss them, they tell you they are too tired for intimacy. Why is it that you are pushed back day after day when before you reached the ‘pinnacle', nothing was ever enough to stop them from tearing your clothes off and showing desire. It's because you are being taken for granted, at least your love. Your partner can't crave your love if all you do is give it to them regardless of anything.
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So. I wanted to add my 2c here. I've been looking into this topic for years.